The quality of the future is about sharing the now with others.

Fernando Aguilar
3 min readJun 27, 2017

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Locked Connections.

The struggle of reality is within myself. It is pretty hard to think of everything, it is pretty impossible to control everything and everyone.

I found in myself a personality of a giver person. For me, it is much more pleasurable when helping another reaching their own goals or finding comfort in the true nature of living.

I often misconceived the idea that giving was bad, and that I would be very successful if a lot of “no’s” were distributed for free. Today I found that maybe it is a little or a lot more helpful if I first find ways to help without prejudicing myself. To be a giver, it means that I help and care about others. Learning how to not burnout or learning how to take care of my own goals is the first step to start becoming a giver.

Making my society grow as a whole is now my intrinsic responsibility. But if givers are so important, how do we crate a world where all those givers like myself can be recognized as the most valuable kind of people? Well, this Ted-Talk has opened my eyes. Now I recognize that our whole process of choosing those to ride with us, ‘who do we take into the bus’ is the most important action if constant improvement is objectived in any way.

What is most important to me is that I recognized that for me I choose to be an optimist, for me, I choose to have the gentleness needed to change my surroundings, to change my society. If I become the light, the candle in the darkness, sooner or later I will bring light in the heart of others, and then we will become ‘us’. Sooner than I think, it will start a revolution of progress over destruction, and love will thrive over darkness and hate.

Today was a great day to learn, and I learnt a lot. Ted talks are the currently most valuable source of modern information and ideas. It was because of this pope’s Francis talk that I changed my view about the future, and I must say that I choose to be the person that is willing to sacrifice myself to see a better future, a future that includes everyone and that is not only designed for the medium or majority.

My life was always comfortable and I am truly grateful for that. But this fact only gives me enough tools to become a powerful reality changer for those which does not have a comfortable and easy life like I had. Today I have the humility to say that I didn’t chose or worked to become who I am, it was just fruit of the randomness of the universe. Who I am does not define my actions, my toughs nor my opinions about the minorities.

I do feel for the minorities, for those who can’t have a equal and just life, with the same opportunities that I had. I do care for those who suffer and those who cry. But first of all, I do not see them as minorities, I see only womans, gays, blacks and Arabs like humans. And seeing them like humans require the same treatment that I would like to myself, the same respect, attention, kindness and compassion. I learned to treat everyone, because in the true quantum perceptive of nature, we are all connected, living together this shared reality. We are all part of each other, I am that and I am whole.

So, to conclude I say: I trust life’s process to heal the world! I will live peacefully because the more energy I can optimize in the life of others, the more energy is available for changing, for cherishing this day, for recognizing the infinite palace of wholeness, of freedom and wealth. I am loving awareness…

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Fernando Aguilar
Fernando Aguilar

Written by Fernando Aguilar

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