What to do When A New Self is Emerging.

To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often.

Fernando Aguilar
5 min readFeb 9, 2019

I need to learn to show again what are the things I do that have generated my present being today.

No one is able to see how subtle the life-connecting technologies are. Things happen in a natural process of balance and imbalance, alignment and misalignment.

Just by stopping to observe the complexity of life is that we can then listen to the inner voice that asks to be heard.

Most of the time this voice is suppressed by noises and noises, but when we are gentle with ourselves, we realize that all that is needed to heal is a bit of solitude and a dose of introspection.

This is not difficult, but it is vital.

And it hurts when you are not accustomed to the new doors of life, it hurts especially when you are waiting for change that we know is right around the corner.

And I’ve realized in practicing slack-line, that the most difficult steps are the last steps.

For these are soaked in a cocktail of fear and limiting thoughts, which prevent us from reaching and walking the last strides that are lacking between us and our goals. What is important is to breathe and let the whole process of self-realization and evolution happen naturally. Life is constantly giving us hints and signals about things that could happen, and it is up to us to make the choices so that these signs are indeed signs.

The goal starts simple, write a few words and at the end, have a text that can be read and felt. But this happens little by little …

Gradually we are putting together the lyrics to make some changes in the opportunities that time shows. That’s what makes so much difference when it comes to creating. At the time of writing.

What are these choices? Now look, we must first believe that these are signs, then try to interpret them. We are human beings and that means we have the super power to make sense of things. It is the way in which we see the world, the lens of meaning is everywhere. While some seek negative senses, others seek positive senses. And the universal laws understand those who not only want everything good or bad, but who know how to recognize that it is a constant change between good and bad, and only our value judgment that attributes qualities to things.

In nature, life is a neural tangle of strings. When we find a wire, we try to untangle this one, and sometimes it is possible to take all the knots by following only one wire, but sometimes not. So we try again, and again, as in an infinite loop. The challenges change, but on a larger scale, their formats are similar.

When all else fails to make sense, we really find the pure sense of the lesson, for we are not forcing the experience to fit into a label template. We let meaningless experience flow and the natural unfolding of time show what the next challenges are to be faced and conquered. I faithfully believe that it is necessary to place ourselves deliberately in a situation of stress and discomfort, because we are able to perfect and conquer new skills. Traveling is a great activity model that triggers personal development, but there are others. Yesterday I read a phrase that was engraved in my soul, and said,

To improve is to change; to be perfect is to change often Winston Churchill.

What is the impact of that phrase on me? I noticed that some moments in life, we receive downloads that cause changes. This happened to me recently. Life lined up in a way that it was necessary for me to do something different. And I did. And now I’m in the middle of the process, like a wave, that knows where it’s going but does not know where it is.
Science as a lens of observation of the universe gives us methods and vocabulary to bring meaning to what is observed by experiences.

And what is the best way to live?

Of course the best way to live is to live trying to be the best version that you can be. Seeking to always do good, not only for you but for others as well. With a focus on deliberately learning, teaching, and seeking new ways to make others feel. And when you are able to find your gift, that which motivates you to want to be better, it is enough to persist to what can bear fruit. Eventually we find new doors and opportunities that open naturally and spontaneously.

The whole process of growth is natural, silent, without confusion. A tree grows for meters, and so when we look at it, it looks like it’s really static. We are equal, when it seems that things are stagnant, it is because there is something much deeper laden with the true essence of who we want to be.

Essence is a philosophically dangerous word to be used, but it means that which is essential within us. Of all the years of life we ​​have accumulated, everything has changed. The mind, the body, and even the environment.

But something is still fixed in one point. Your essence is that point that says you are you.

Everything finds its balance, and all the ways arrive somewhere.

The only thing necessary is to know where you want to go, for then you know which way you want to go. But if it does not necessarily have a destiny in mind, then any path will do. And honestly, it’s not that difficult to know what you want, but many are being controlled by influences. Tell me who you walk with and I’ll tell you what you want. If you engage with a high-frequency group, your goals and desires will be different than those that focus only on materialistic social approval.

But everything is relative, and it may be that what I say here is not a universal truth but a local truth. Above all, I perceive a pattern of functioning, I realize that when you take courage and perform a fearless and detached movement with a clear goal, reaching your inner limits, then the outside fits into the interior and your whole being starts to live in balance, and your life begins the cycle, you are reborn to a new being, a new emerging self.

Thanks For Reading ❤

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Fernando Aguilar
Fernando Aguilar

Written by Fernando Aguilar

• • Outputting thoughts as they emerge from inside ••

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